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You were supposed to be married by now. WTF?!

“Why is dating so hard?”
- signed, an awesome woman who’s got her shit together
You dust off your phone, redownload all those apps, and start swiping…*again*…because how else will you ever meet someone? (And besides, does anyone even meet in person anymore?)
Except, after a few weeks of swiping and being “switched on” around men, that pit in your stomach (you know the one — the same one that caused you to delete all the apps before) came back.
It seems like the only people you find on those apps are immature, emotionally unavailable, “window shopping” men who aren’t willing or ready to commit.
The only constant is confusion and red flags for miles.
You’ve got a lot going for you: You’re the shit! But you can’t find a boyfriend. WTF?!

What if I told you there was a better way?
The truth is it’s easy to blame the men, the apps, and our dating culture for making you feel like you’re just another profile in a sea of endless options — because you kinda are.
You can’t change dating culture or men, BUT there’s so much you can control (that you might not be aware of yet).
Spoiler: They’re simple, but can change your dating game for good.
Things like:
recognizing why you pick guys that don’t want what you want
spotting red flags sooner (and not making excuses for them anymore)
refusing to accept breadcrumbs (because that’s bullshit)
becoming unapologetically confident in who you are (because you’re actually a badass!)
learning how to trust your gut (because you are so much more intuitive than you give yourself credit for)
This is the work we’ll do together, and it’ll change your fucking life.
My Coaching Offerings
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1:1 Coaching
If you’re tired of wasting time trying to figure out this whole dating game on your own and you’re ready to finally get a committed boyfriend, one-on-one coaching allows you to work directly with Alyse to get personalized support so you don’t have to figure it out on your own.
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Group Coaching
Do you ever wonder why it’s so hard to meet a nice guy? Or why all of your friends are married with kids and you’re stuck in a sea of red flags? This group coaching program will teach you to date strategically to find the life partner you deserve.
Client Testimonials
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Client Testimonial - Mia F.
"My life can be divided between pre-Alyse and post-Alyse. She has really helped me in so many ways…Alyse is extremely easy to talk to and I always leave her office better than I came in. She’s a vital part of my life and I couldn’t recommend her more!"
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Client Testimonial - Dave C.
“Life can sometimes be overwhelming - things coming at you from all directions. In times like these, you will need objective help to get yourself pointed in the right direction. Alyse is on your side. She is also caring, witty and has unbelievable recall when it comes to your individual needs, concerns and challenges. If you are looking for answers, see Alyse. She will help you find them.”
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Client Testimonial
“Your warmth and sincerity means more than you can know…You made me feel safe to uncover what was holding me back and you made me feel safe enough to face it, deal with it and move on. And I am better for it. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!”
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"Stop Dating Assholes" Program - Client Testimonial
Alyse taught me to “treat dating as sort of like a business in that it is important to be specific and know what it is that I want.”
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Client Testimonial
“Thanks to you, Alyse, I am better for having you in my life. I am a strong, determined woman, and I know if I require a "tuneup," I know your "shop" door is open. You are the Mercedes Dealer for the soul.”
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"Stop Dating Assholes" Program - Client Testimonial
“I was anxious about participating in this program. It felt silly to admit I might need it. My individual therapist was also skeptical that it was not what I needed to focus on, but boy were we wrong... taking the SAFE space and intentional time to be critical about dating practices with an experienced coach…, along with sharing in a group setting, held a vulnerability that was met with understanding and encouragement. It's worth breaking down what my needs are and how to find what I want. There's nothing wrong with my heart and when it comes to matters of the heart, it's worth deep diving and sorting how to swim through the dating pool effectively.”
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Client Testimonial
“You have shown me the person that I could be but never imagined I would become. For that I am forever grateful.”
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Colleague Testimonial - Susanna Guarino, LMHC
“As her colleague, I can attest to [Alyse’s] integrity and passion about her work. I would not hesitate to refer to her. Highly recommended!”
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Client Testimonial - Jennifer B.
"I have been seeing Alyse for years. She is extremely warm and empathetic. Her humor is very refreshing. After every encounter, I feel so much better about the challenges I have to face. Do not hesitate to make an appointment! Alyse makes herself available whenever I need a recharge! I love her positivity!"
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Client Testimonial
"I have been seeing Alyse for three years now and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done for myself. She creates a safe space for you to say anything and work through any problem... She gives the most practical advice while being the warmest person I know. She is extremely understanding and never judgmental. Alyse has helped me more than words can describe."
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Colleague Testimonial - Hannah Kanter, LICSW, LMSW, CYT
“Alyse is…kind, direct, and fiercely supportive. Like her signature hot pink, she brings bold clarity to your problems. She cuts through mental noise, tells it like it is, and keeps you focused and accountable to your goals.”
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Colleague Testimonial - Debbie Winters, LCSW
“Alyse is…smart, direct, and can guide you toward the goals you want in life. I highly recommend!”
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"Stop Dating Assholes" Program - Client Testimonial
Alyse taught me that dating is data collection, and that it is OK to be selective and to have standards. Those guys I used to date were never my destiny.
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Colleague Testimonial - Lalo Rivera, LPC, SEP, LAC
“[Alyse] is direct, insightful, and authentic. Under her care, you cannot help but become the best version of yourself.”
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Colleague Testimonial - Dr. Marcuetta Sims, Ph.D
“[Alyse] is authentic, introspective, thoughtful and truly a dynamic practitioner. I am honored and grateful to be able to share these professional spaces with her and would highly recommend her to anyone looking to do deep meaningful work.”
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Client Testimonial
“Alyse is kind, warm, caring, relatable, and funny. Most importantly, she is non-judgmental, trust-worthy, and makes you feel 100% comfortable. Alyse is realistic and genuine; she gives practical advice that will actually help you and make you more productive; she never just tells you what you want to hear. I love that I leave every session with an action plan, and Alyse always follows up with whatever it is we left off with during our previous meeting. Everyone needs an Alyse in their lives.”
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Colleague Testimonial - Carolyn Cohn, LCSW
“[Alyse] immediately puts people at ease with her warmth, insight, and positive energy.”
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Colleague Testimonial - Carol Covelli, MSW, LCSW
“[Alyse] skillfully zeros in on the manageable steps her clients need to attain their goals. Alyse is not a 'blank wall,' she is interactive with her clients... In working with clients, Alyse strikes the perfect balance between being upfront and empathetic in helping them with their struggles. I am privileged to be her colleague and I highly recommend her.”
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Client Testimonial - Wendy D.
“I have been seeing Alyse for quite some time and she has helped me navigate life problems and situations in many valuable ways... I learn coping techniques and tools to help me through big issues and daily life... She makes herself available, sometimes on very short notice, and she has been there for me during some very tough times... I am very grateful to have her in my life."
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"Stop Dating Assholes" Program - Client Testimonial
"Thank you for holding space for navigating needs, grace for honest intentions, and encouragement for prospective dates without assuming responsibility.”
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Colleague Testimonial - Jennifer Shore, LMHC
“[Alyse] is both thoughtful and thought-provoking; helping clients to see the bigger picture... And, as an added bonus, her enthusiasm and sense of humor create a most welcoming environment …”
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Colleague Testimonial - Cynthia Luik, LMHC
“If you are looking for someone to really listen to you and give you helpful tools and suggestions Alyse is for you! I would give her a 10/10 every time!”
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Client Testimonial - Jennifer Budah
“I have been seeing Alyse for years. She is extremely warm and empathetic. Her humor is very refreshing. After every encounter, I feel so much better about the challenges I have to face. Do not hesitate to make an appointment! Alyse makes herself available whenever I need a recharge! I love her positivity!”
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Colleague Testimonial - Andrea Horowitz LMHC, BC-TMH, GCT
“Alyse…brings an energy and presence that is refreshingly real, a little spunky, and completely dedicated to helping her clients grow. Working with her is life changing and I highly recommend her!”
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Client Testimonial
"I have never received such compassion and support… you have seen me through my struggles and have helped me to improve my level of functioning and as a result I have been able to improve my relationships, my job performance and so many other areas of my life. Words cannot express the deep gratitude that I feel."
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Client Testimonial - Stephanie Acerra
“[Alyse] is smart, warm, kind, understanding, and funny. She has helped me improve my life and taught me the skills to cope with problems big and small... Her practical advice has helped me change how I think and feel everyday. I’m so happy she’s the person with whom I get to work on myself.”
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Colleague Testimonial - Drew Rabidoux, LCSW
“[Alyse is] hilariously funny and so easy to talk to. I refer clients to her often and she always does great work with them. Alyse is extremely knowledgeable about dating, relationships, and has a no BS approach, which I appreciate so much. I love being in groups with her because she adds so much value and perspective. I highly recommend her and her work.”
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Colleague Testimonial - Deborah Winters, LCSW
"[Alyse] has truly changed lives with her direct yet compassionate approach. Alyse never shies away from telling clients the unvarnished truth, but does so with their best interest at heart. Her insight cuts straight to the core of issues. She challenges clients, while making them feel completely safe, seen and valued during the process.”
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Client Testimonial - Ava H.
“I have worked with Alyse for over ten years and there is honestly no one I trust more than her. The moment you meet her you are instantly put at ease by her warm and caring personality. (She also happens to be very funny)... Alyse works with you on what YOUR Goals are... She has seen me in my darkest hours and she has never judged me... Life is really hard, everyone needs someone to talk to... Let that someone be Alyse. You won't be disappointed.”
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